Dont Stop being your husband's girlfriend ..

Ways to Make Your Husband Feel Loved and Respected

• Leave him little notes - in his lunch, on the mirror in the morning, on the windshield of his car, etc.
• Spontaneously touch him. Touch is SO important.
• Praise him in front of others. When you're in public or have people over, find ways to praise him and make him feel good.
• Encourage him. It's easy to criticize. Encouragement builds him up and makes him feel good about himself.
• Show interest in his hobbies. Allow him time and space.
• Focus on what he's doing right rather than how he's making you mad. Don't concentrate on the negative. 
• Give him time to unwind. Don't dump your day's problems and concerns on your husband the moment he walks through the door after a hard day. 
• Don't overcommit yourself. Don't constantly give other activities or people priority over time spent with your husband.
• Find ways to show him that you need him. My joking way to do this is if I can't open something or figure out something, I go up to my husband and say, "This is man's work." Even if you can figure it out, let him do it. This makes him feel like you need him the way he needs you.
• Tell him you're sorry. When you've hurt him, swallow your pride.
• Resolve conflict quickly. Don't let your anger grow or come into the marital bed.
• Defend him. If you're in a situation where someone is not being polite to him (e.g. your mother, father, sibling, etc.) IMMEDIATELY stand up for him and tell them all the things that you appreciate about him.
• Honor him in front of the kids. Don't make him look bad in front of the children. 
• Initiate intimacy. This is an area of conflict in probably most marriages. You may not have a need at the particular moment for intimacy, but that's how men register that you love them.
• Don't expect him to read your mind. Husbands are NOT mind-readers. If you have something to say, say it! (But in a kind way, please).
• Flirt with him. It doesn't hurt to be flirty! Flirting is a good way to show your affection and love. Exhibiting that Mom and Dad love each other strengthens your family and makes the kids feel incredibly safe at any age

Tortilla Cheese

dalam dok surfing ptg2 nie terjumpa lak satu resepi tortilla ... menarik, nampak sedap, my favorite ... jom kita cuba ..

Bahan-bahan:
Tortilla wrap 
Tomata
Lada benggala hijau
Timun
Lobak merah
Daun bawang
Daun ketumbar(parsley)
Bawang besar kuning
BBQ sauce
Kepingan ayam atau hotdog cheese
Keju parmesan grated





Cara-cara :1.Potong kecil semua bahan kecuali keju, tortilla.
2.Bentang tortilla dan tabur keju parmesan dulu. Nanti masa panas keju ni boleh jadi agen pelekat roti ni nanti.
3. Tabur semua bahan yang dipotong di separuh roti tortilla. Nanti senang nak lipat dua tortilla ni.
4. Susun ayam atau hotdog cheese.
5. Letak sikit bbq sauce.
6. Tabur lagi sekali keju parmesan grated dan telangkup dua tortilla ni.
7. Letak atas pemanggang dan bakar sampai kekuningan dan macam nak hangus sikit. 


credit to : http://sheisdyanz.blogspot.com/

Yee Mee Sizzling Sedap ...

haa .. satu lagi favorite Mr H is szilling yee mee ... asal kitaorg gi alamanda jer, mesti dia nak makan sizzling .. and actually aku pun suka gak makan sizzling nie, sejiwa gituu  ;) so, aku pun apa lagi, carilah resepi sizzling yee mee yang sedap nie ... so here i share, dapat dari blog http://kellazule.blogspot.com/... credit to the blogger...

Sizzling Yee Mee 

9 ulas bawang putih ( ketuk atau hiris)
2-3 inci halia ( hiris nipis)
5-6 tangkai Cili kering ( potong 2 atau 3) nak pedas boleh lebihkan..
sebelah dada ayam
sebungkus cendawan shitakesos 
tiram
kicap pekat dan kicap cair
serbuk lada hitam
sesudu kecil minyak bijan
4-5 cawan air (ikut suka pun boleh)
3-4 sudu besar tepung jagung untuk pemekat ( harus di bancuh dengan air)
sayur sawi
yee mee 
Cara:
1.tumis bawang putih, halia dan cili kering bila hingga kekuningan
2.masukkan ayam kemudian sedikit air..
3.masukkan cendawan..masukkan air, biarkan seketika hingga ayam masak.. 
4.masukkan semua perasa (kicap, sos tiram,lada hitam)
5.masukkan minyak bijan
6.tutup seketika.. pastikan cendawan dan ayam betul2 masak
7.masukkan cecair tepung jagung untuk memekatkan kuah..bila rasa dah ok... dah boleh la mulakan proses membuat yee mee atas hot plate tu...

Hot plate preparation:
1.mula mula masukkan mee atas hot plate, 
2.letakkan sayur di atasnya, 
3.kemudian curahkan kuahnya sesenduk di atas mee tersebut, 
4.pecahkan telur jika mahu, dan teruskan mencurahkan kuah beserta lauk dan cendawan secukupnya... 
5.kacau kacau mee untuk serasakan kelembutannya (kalau takda hot plate.. boleh je satukan.. masukkan yee mee bersama kuah dalam kuali..)

untuk yee mee nya:
rendam seketika dengan air masak, dalam 5-10 minit, kemudian buang airnya dan biarkan seketika. air tu perlu dibuang untuk mengelakkan mee terlalu lembut, anda akan dapati mee masih lagi keras ketika air telah dibuang,namun jangan risau, mee itu akan cepat lembut bila dibiarkan seketika..lagipun nanti kita akan masak mee itu sekali lagi bersama kuahnya.mee itu akan lembut juga nanti, so tak perlu la rendam lelama.. =)

My new goal ..

ok .. today i set up a new goal ... i wanna weight 59 kg on my Big Day .... so i have more or less 3 mths to make it happen ... need to reduce in total 6 kg i.e 2kg per month .. i think its quite a reasonable target. i've done before so i gonna do it again this time .. chaiyokk dear .. you can do it !!

Counting Days

its 100 to our Big Day ... dup dup dup ... betul la kata orang, tempoh tunang tempoh yang mencabar, hati jadi sensitive sgt, cepat jer nak merajuk ngan dia ... hai hati, sabar lah, behave la...

3rd May 14 ..

Selamat bertunang Abang ...Terima kasih kerana sudi memilih diri nie sebagai pendamping Abang dihari tua.. semoga rasa sayang dan cinta yang lahir antara kita akan sentiasa mekar. Semoga ikatan ini kekal sehingga ke jinjang pelamin dan kekal sehingga ke jannah Allah 

Terima kasih ya Allah, atas rahmat dan nikmat serta rasa bahagia yang kau kirimkan buat kami .. rahmatilah kami, satukan kami sehingga ke syurgaMu ya Allah

Ikan Siakap Kukus Halia

This is one of manu yg Mr H suka makan .. ikan kukus .. nanti i will try this recepi and give the review ... but, of coz wont let him rasa lg till i satisfied with the taste .. :D 

Bahan-bahan: 
1 ekor Ikan Siakap - dibersih
2 sudu besar Halia - dihiris halus
1 sudu besar Bawang Merah - dihiris halus
1 sudu kecil Bawang Putih - dihiris halus
4 biji Cili Padi - dititik
1 sudu besar Daun Ketumbar
2 sudu besar Lobak Merah - dihiris halus
2 sudu makan Cendawan Shitake - dihiris halus
1 biji Air Limau Nipis
2 sudu besar Sos Tiram
1 sudu besar Kicap Cair
1 sudu kecil Gula
4 sudu besar Air



Cara Masak: 
1. Bersihkan ikan dan letak ikan di atas pingan bujur.
2. Masukan semua bahan lain mangkuk dan gaul hingga rata.
3. Tuang di atas permukaan ikan dan kukus selama 20-25 minit.
4. Siap untuk di hidang hias dengan daun bawang dan cili merah.


Kredit to : www.trymasak.my